Just Another Day

So its another day where Its been so slow at work that I have way to much thinking time on my hands.  Yesterday was an absolute nightmare at work for reasons I can not go into.  However I asked/text (I was at work) my live-in-Boyfriend for one little thing, because I was going to be stuck at work till close to midnight, "can you go pick up Christopher at the babysitters.  One little question and shouldn't have been such a big deal but it ended up being one.  Instead of a yes, which if it was his kids and the role was reversed you could bet I would pick them up at wherever they were, I received a reply of "well um...the boys and I are going to watch the UFC fight and Buffalo Wild Wings" aka I don't really want to also note that the "boys" are his kids ages 16 and 14 so it wasn't a no child allowed.  Then I receive a text saying "why can't you do it", its at that time I wanted to reply well duh...I'm at work across town and can't go get him, instead of saying this I text him back saying never mind then.  Then I get this gem of "if you need me to I guess I can".  Um NO! I am not going to have you go pick up my child when you obviously don't want to and why do you think I asked you to get him for shits and giggles?  I needed you to pick him up because it was going to be late before I could get off.  Instead I decided that it didn't even deserve an answer and thank god for my boss she understood what was going on and said stay till 8 then go get the baby.  When I finally make it home at 9:30 he looks at me and said I would have gone and got him and I thought you had to work until midnight.  Because we had company I told him that I didn't even want to get into it and proceeded to make the baby something to eat.  He doesn't seem to understand why I'm not real happy with him His friend asked whats the matter with her and he was all I dont' know maybe it was a stressful day at work.  Yea and then some <insert eye roll>

Yea this is a whine post but dam I'm pissed.  I hate these stretches of if it is not about him or his kids then he could care less.  Am I wrong to feel this way?  I know he does a lot around the house and when he doesn't have to work I can leave Chris with him, but he had been home for a time that day and with the possibility of me being laid of in a couple of days I was trying to pick up as many hours as I could.  When I got the chance it seems that it was no I don't want to do more than I really need to.  Sometimes I'm beginning to think that it is time to have my own space once again because its not really working.  Then he will do something like buy Chris school clothes for Preschool because mom hasn't had a chance because work was way busy and she wasn't making it home before the stores closed.  Go ahead tell me I'm being a baby and to suck it and put on my big girl panties but I needed to vent and this is the best place.